Issue #60 ~•~ June 13th, 2001
The Electronic Magazine of www.Chathouse.com.
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Colonel Crispy
How did you decide on the handle (s)? •Colonel Crispy-Too many KFC commercials Location: Calgary, Alberta, Canada How long have you been chatting, which rooms, etc... Over a year and a half, mostly found in Twister. Age & Zodiac sign? Age-20 on July 18th. Zodiac Sign- Cancer the Crab Marital Status? Single (subject to change) Kids? I am my own kid... Pets? nope. Profession? Carry-out at a grocery store. Hobbies and Interests: •Hobbies-Video games, watching DVD movies, streethockey Musical Preferences: Rob Zombie, U2, Robbie Williams, Matthew Good Band, AC/DC Pet Peeves: People who have no sense of humor. A favorite Motto or Quote to live by: If I can do it, you can do it, if I can't, don't bother. Anything else that you'd like people to know about you? I'm a nice, sometimes shy person who is willing to lend an ear to a friend in need. Changes or improvements that you'd like to see at the Chathouse™: The allowance of using files from our hard drives as opposed to the net to make our profiles. (i.e. Instead of having someone put a pic of me on their site for me to use in my profile, I could use my hard drive to add the picture) | |
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LadyGreenEyes™ June 11, 2001 Over the past hour and fifteen minutes, I sat in front of my television, glued to the screen, as I watched the news covering the execution of Timothy James McVeigh. I had intended to let this day go by without paying any attention to the end of the life of the man who took the lives of 171 people in the Oklahoma City Bombing. I say 171 people instead of the 168 who were recognized as being murdered by McVeigh, because of the 3 unborn babies who were killed when the lives of their pregnant mothers ended. For all we know, there could have been even more unborn lives taken, about which we’ve not heard, nor will we ever, because the women who could have been carrying new life inside them never got the chance to find out. Timothy McVeigh took that chance away from them. I am a pro-life advocate and oppose the taking of human life in any form outside of the duty we have as a country during a time of war. I am against abortion and euthanasia, suicide and yes, capital punishment. Even still, I could not let the monumental event marking the end of one of the most abhorrent acts of terrorism in United States history go unnoticed, even though my original intent was to let McVeigh’s execution pass with nary a blink of my eye. My heart aches for the lives that were lost in this senselessly tragic event, from the unborn to those whose deaths were recognized, from the survivors of the bombing to the survivors within the families of those who died, and yes, from the family of Timothy McVeigh to McVeigh himself. He, himself, has become another statistic; the "collateral damage" and "human toll" of which he spoke in his last press statement published over the weekend. The loss of human life, in any form, is a tragedy in my eyes. McVeigh’s actions go beyond horrific. There is not a strong enough word in the English language to express or accurately describe what he did or the type of person he had to be to carry out such an act. He planned it, chose the site, planted the bomb, lit the fuse and calmly walked away as if nothing was amiss. When the eyewitnesses to the execution spoke about what they saw, it was clear; Timothy McVeigh orchestrated the events leading up to and including his execution, with calculated precision. He accepted his fate with the serenity of someone who had drawn up a blueprint of death from start to finish and remembered to include his execution as just another part of the plan. The passage from Invictus, which he chose as his final written statement, said he was the master of his fate and the captain of his soul. Timothy McVeigh chose his own destiny and he was in control from start to finish. I will never understand, nor will probably anyone, how a handsome young man who served his country faithfully in the military during the Gulf War, a decorated war hero, could turn around and commit an ugly act of terrorism on the very soil he swore to protect, against the Constitution he was to uphold. Government screw-ups, dishonesty, banning possession of guns, or whatever reasons the so-called “freedom fighters” choose to provide for opposing the American government, be damned. There is no legitimate excuse for actions like this, which blatantly oppose the laws of the land they claim to love so much and for whom they claim to fight. All in the name of “freedom.” During the television broadcast, I prayed. I prayed after the bombing for the victims whose lives were taken from them for no good reason. Today, I prayed for God to have mercy on the soul of Timothy McVeigh. He is considered to be a monster in the eyes of many, because only a monster could do what he did so coolly and not blink an eye. Even McVeigh, monster or not, is entitled to the Mercy of the Ultimate Victim, whose once and for all sacrifice took on the sins of the world and paid for each of them, from the beginning of the world until the end. I prayed the Lord’s Prayer for McVeigh and was struck in my meditation by the words, “forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.” Timothy McVeigh trespassed against the people he killed, their families, his own family and an entire nation. We didn’t forgive him. We executed him. We exacted our revenge in the form of a lethal cocktail of drugs administered through an intravenous tube inserted into his right leg and we call our vengeance justice. He has paid his debt to society through his death and even so, he will not be forgiven. Still, we call this justice. I am willing to bet that we will all still expect to be forgiven for our trespasses, great and small, without another thought given to our unforgiving hearts toward Timothy James McVeigh. I wonder what the one and only true Justice thinks of that? Do not misunderstand. I am not a supporter of McVeigh. I do not condone, in any way, the actions he took six years ago to lead him up to today. There is no punishment equal enough in this world to compensate for the lives he took. Life in prison with hard labor isn’t good enough and neither is death. No matter how you try to paint the picture, he only had one life to give as recompense. Compared to the number of lives he took, there was no equality of retribution and there never will be. I forgive Timothy McVeigh. I didn’t lose a family member or a friend in Oklahoma City that day and I cannot possibly fathom how those who did must feel. Maybe if I was walking in their shoes I might be singing a different song. I’d like to think I wouldn’t. I’d like to think other people could forgive, too. When I suggest that we should forgive Timothy McVeigh, I do not suggest we should have let him go free. That’s not the kind of forgiveness I mean. I’m talking about the kind that comes from within. I feel a great deal of sorrow over this whole matter. I’m sorry for the people who died, that their lives were taken from them for no reason. I’m sorry for the family members and friends who have to go on without their loved ones and who had to relive the pain all over again as the wound was reopened today by the execution. A mother of one of the victims said it was a demarcation point of justice, a period at the end of a sentence. She also said there would be no closure for her until the day she dies. Most of the families feel that way. Was there sense in reopening the wound without cauterizing it? The execution did nothing to help in that end. I will even go so far as to say I feel sorry for McVeigh himself, to a certain degree. I'm sorry he felt he had to commit this crime in order for our government to sit up and take notice. I'm sorry that his heart, for whatever the reasons, grew so cold and empty that he felt no compassion or remorse for his actions. I’m also sorry that McVeigh wound up hurting even more people when he was executed, in that members of his own family will have to live with the reminder of what he did and his death, every single day for the rest of their lives. He was still someone’s child, someone's brother and probably even someone's friend. I have some serious issues with the death penalty. I don’t care what form is used to execute someone, the taking of any human life is inhumane. Period. Full stop. I’m not saying that the acts committed which put people on death row aren’t inhumane, because they are. Killing someone is an inhumane act in general because it goes against the law written within our hearts that all human life is precious. Since feelings of wanting to exact revenge in the face of murder's inhumanity are natural, with the wave of a hand and the bang of a judge’s gavel, we legalize the taking of yet another human being’s life as repayment for the crime committed and call it normal, healthy American Justice. The United States is catching flack from all around the world today for legalizing capital punishment and this country lost its seat on the UN Committee for Human Rights largely due to its death penalty stance. Not surprising. Look at the company we keep. Iraq, Iran, Saudi Arabia and China are the only other countries that still practice ‘an eye for an eye’ in the form of criminal execution. We’re supposed to be the good guys, but look who is rubbing shoulders with us. Death culture makes for strange bedfellows. We know the death penalty doesn’t work as a deterrent to crime. If it did, people like Timothy McVeigh, Richard Speck, John Wayne Gacy, and other murderers wouldn’t still be killing. One execution would’ve been enough to get across the message that we won’t tolerate the crime of murder. If the death penalty worked, I wouldn’t personally know someone with whom I went to high school who has been sitting on death row since 1986 in Illinois State Prison, awaiting death by lethal injection. Now, while I think that George W. Bush was the lesser choice of the evils presented to us during the last presidential election, behind his presidency, the United States is now jumping into its federal executions full force. There has not been a federal execution in this country in over four decades. Timothy McVeigh was the first. President Bush has already given the green light on the next one, which will take place next week. The culture of death continues. We are about to be innundated with executions and George W. Bush, while not being responsible for the sentences these people received and not being the person who pulls the lever or shoots the needle, is just as much the executioner as the one who does. He is the man who stands at the gallows behind the black mask and his mask is the Presidential Seal. The death penalty is not dispensed fairly in this country, in my opinion, which is just another reason why I am against it. Minorities and the poor are often lacking in a fair trial and the real possibility of executing an innocent person exists. The death penalty is not doled out to all murderers, just some. It depends on how heinous the crime and in what state the crime is committed as to whether or not someone is condemned to die. That is not fair, equitable, or the “justice” the United States proclaims. Justice is fair. Or at least it’s supposed to be. I don’t know what the answer is, but obviously the death penalty isn’t it. It does nothing but sink us down to the very level of countries we oppose in their governmental principles, or lack thereof, and to the levels of those whom we execute. They kill. We kill. It’s a vicious circle. I’m torn on this issue because obviously I have a Christian slant to my opinion. Even if I wasn’t a Christian, I wouldn’t be on the side of the death penalty and I realize that makes me a minority since most Americans approve of it. While I loathe this practice our country has adopted, my human nature says that McVeigh got what he deserved, but not nearly enough. Today at 7:14 a.m., Timothy James McVeigh died. The order of execution was carried out. His death certificate says the cause of death was lethal injection. It also says the manner of death was homicide. Homicide is murder. Justice. Gotta love it. | |
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MichiganStorm™
Free Chat- What does free mean to you? Without cost? Without obligation? Perhaps both of these things and maybe more? For me it means Chathouse®, the only place I like to chat. I've tried MSN messenger, didn't care for it. I was once an ICQ junkie, now it just drives me crazy and is basically nonexistant on this computer. I've tried Yahoo! and AOL instant messaging service, I've tried almost all chat services I could find on the internet that woudn't cost me money, but yet here I am. Why? Because Chathouse® is the ONLY place to chat! There is a diverse selection of people- ages and careers, homelands and cultures, etc. The Chathouse® isn't just a place to chat for me anymore, it's where I go to catch up with friends, the friends that I met and made there, the friends I wouldn't have if it wasn't for Chathouse®!! I know I'm not the only person to feel this way... But to keep Chathouse® free, we can make a few simple clicks for them can't we? Click on the ads and help keep our free chat FREE! I realize that they might seem annoying or that you might not feel obligated, but then if we don't feel obligated to make a few simple clicks for them why should they continue to feel obligated to give us the greatest place on the WWW to chat? Good Deals- FREE 15$ Gift Certificate!! All you have to do is sign up for a X10 Discount Club email letter and confirm your registration, and POOF there is a 15$ certificate in your email!!! It's good for your first purchase through them!! They have mini-cams and other great deals! The Replies- Here are some of the replies I recieved: • It shouldn't change anything, as long as the person isn't lying about it or having extramarital affairs online. -anonymous • I wasn't aware married (or unmarried) people couldn't have lives or friends? -anonymous • I don't feel it's anyone's business if a chatter is married or not, it is up to the chatter to tell anyone he/she feels fit. I also believe that if people are curious enough to start bullshit rumors, even ones as juvenile as "oh no, the boy I like likes her... I'll tell him and the rest of the room she's married", perhaps the curious parties should ASK. Do married people now develop the plague when they exchange vows? Is it wrong to have married friends? I've plenty of married friends, IRL and online, someone's marital status does not a person make. If this person is not breaking their vows, what's it to the rest of us if they chat? More power to them for enduring the institution called marriage!! -MichiganStorm™ |