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It's the Ezine
~ February 19th, 2002 ~ Issue #80 ~

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Chat Gathering
Josie™

I am considering hosting another net gathering here in Wilmington, NC sometime early October. If you are interested, please email me @ spring_fling@hotmail.com I will only proceed with planning if enough people are interested in attending. Josie

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More Valentines
I'm afraid some of our Valentines weren't received here at the Ezine until after the issue was posted, those that were late are added here. My apologies to those that didn't make it in last week's issue, but the issue was posted on the twelfth and announced on the thirteenth and anything received after that would not be added.

To: Spaced
From: ~*Destiny*~

    Happy Valentines Day to Spaced, the sweetest guy i know I love u with all my heart baby :-)


To: gregg-wolfey
From: Nes
    Happy Valentines Sweetheart! *hugs and tons of smootches* You are a doll and i love ya.. keep that sexy chin up *wink*


To: L.A. Woman
From: mai-sheri
    *hugs to the non prudish one.. wink*
    Happy Valentines Honey.. thank You for being such a cool person upstairs.. You are truly a wonderful woman..

To: JayCDee
From: mai-sheri
    You have made the past few months so much easier for me.. always giving me an ear when I needed to yak.. or a shoulder when I needed to sob.. I thank You for that. You are a wonderful Man and an even better Friend.. Happy Valentines Day

To: It's Fate
From: mai-sheri
    Happy Valentines Day! im sending this to You, in hopes that You even look.. LOL.. cause You were one of the first ppl to make me feel welcomed when i moved upstairs.. thank You.. You are the greatest and i love our chats.. *smootches*


To: MM
From: Ness
mai-sheri
    *runs up, jumping in Your lap.. kissing Your lips and groping You once.. hehehe* Happy Valentines Sweetie.. im sorry for Your loss.. please know, im always here for You.. as You were for me i love Ya girlie..

To: Lord Rayden and purr
From: Nes mai-sheri
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY Yyou two!
*hugs to the happy couple*

i hope this is the first of many special days for the two of Yyou.. Yyou both make a wonderful couple.. both slower typers.. *winking* i love Yya both *smootches*


To: Spinnin_Frenzy
From: mai-sheri
    I wanted to say, thank You for being such a good person.. You are a great Friend to have.. You've made me laugh when i thought i would cry.. and You always gave in and spoke Spanish for me *wink* Have a great Valentines Honey


To: Dark Lord and emerald fire
From: Nes mai-sheri
    HAPPY VALENTINES Yyou two!

    *hugs and smootches to Yyou both* beading, you've been there for me and for another to bitch about each other.. you truly are a sweet spirit.. thanks for believing in me..

To: Hardy Boy
From: mai-sheri

    You are a great guy! a pleasure to talk to and You make me feel good when You wear my tag..LOL i love ya Man!

To: LT and Sici
From: mai-sheri
You both are wonderful.. Sici, im not sure how... but you knew this was me.. *laffin as i hug you* You two alone with a few others have made me feel really welcomed in the WW... thank you both for being so wonderful to me! *hugs the pretty Sici and the Pimp Daddy*

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The Chathouse

~Chat Dominatrix~

Ted Nugent wrote this?
Click the above envelope read the latest Ted Nugent The Bad American email that is going around. And the answer to if this is true or not is as the below link states:
Although they love the email, Ted Nugent did not write it! 

Ted Nugent's Site

Aol & Intel giving away money?
Here again is the what do you have to lose email.
This time the it's Intel and Aol that will be paying for the email forwarding.

Click
to see for yourself that this is not true!
It is not true for Aol & Intel, nor is it true for any other company which you may receive an email about!
So you can and should STOP forwarding these emails!

GOOD IDEAS:
When you get ads in your phone or utility bill, include them with the payment. Let them throw it away.
When you get those pre approved letters in the mail for everything from credit cards to 2nd mortgages and junk like that, most of them come with postage paid return envelopes, right? Well, why not get rid of some of your other junk mail and put it in these cool little envelopes! Send an ad for your local chimney cleaner to American Express.
Or a pizza coupon to Citibank. If you didn't get anything else that day, then just send them their application back! If you want to remain anonymous, just make sure your name isn't on anything you send them. You can send it back empty if you want to just to keep them guessing!
Eventually, the banks and credit card companies will begin getting all their junk back in the mail.
Let's let them know what it's like to get junk mail, and best of all THEY'RE paying for it! Twice!
Let's help keep our postal service busy since they say e-mail is cutting into their business, and that's why they need to increase postage again!

February 20,2002
You are about to live a very historic day!
As the clock ticks over from 8:01PM on Wednesday, February 20th, 2002,  time will
(for sixty seconds only) read in perfect symmetry.
To be more  precise 20:02, 20/02, 2002.
(military time and date format)
It is an event which has only ever happened once before, and is something which will never be repeated. The last occasion that time read in such a symmetrical pattern was long before the days of the digital watch
(or the 24-hour clock)
At 10:01AM, on January 10, 1001. And because the clock only goes up to 23.59, it is something that will never happen again.

Chathouse News

Worth A Whipping Handle
A handle that deserve at least a second look!
#1: Nice guy with brains, imagination and a raging stiffy(#1903852 )

The Chatters Webring
I've started getting submissions for the Chathouse Webring! The page is started and the chatter's links to their websites will be added soon!
If you have a website or run a room's website and would like to be in the Chathouse Webring, please send me an email!

Added Quotes
Three quotes were picked this week to be added to the Random Quotes. 

The first one wasn't submitted through the Random Quotes address, and didn't have a handle included in the email. So if the person that submitted this quote would like their handle added in, please email me it! ~S~
˛ "Inside every older person is a younger person wondering what the hell happened!."

The second one was sent in by - Silky
˛ "The problem with political jokes is they get elected."  

The third one was sent in by - Chat Dominatrix
˛ "Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself." -- Leo Tolstoy

To submit your favorite quote, joke, bumper sticker or motto for a chance to win and be added to the Random Quotes, email it in, along with your handle to,
quotes@chathouse.com

Click the Chathouse links below!

    
New Chatters

RantMaster's Theater   The News Page

chatdominatrix@hotmail.com

My Two Cents

by My2CentsDealW/it!

Dear2c@hotmail.com

My Two Cents on American
Borders, Language and Culture
A Three Part Series

First in this series, I will discuss American Borders, Immigration (both legal & illegal), drugs and other border concerns. In light of recent events, border security for the prevention of terrorism is reason enough, but that is only the tip of the iceberg.

American borders have been a sore subject with me for a long time. In this age of "globalization", the trendy term for One-World Government, the borders have become a mere suggestion rather than a hard and fast dividing line. Are borders nothing more than imaginary lines, arbitrarily drawn on a map? I think not! Even in this age of globalization, with many countries apparently subscribing to similar political/social philosophies, there are still many differences both subtle and glaring between nations. The similarities allow us to form alliances, but the differences make us each unique. The idea of National Sovereignty is lost on many people today and I would wager that very few people could even define it, much less grasp the intricate concepts behind it. Which explains, at least in part, why our borders have deteriorated so.

Sovereignty - Government free from external control.

With Swiss cheese borders, such as we have had for so long, you breed all manner of serious social problems. Not only do you open the door to aspiring entrepreneurial drug lords, but you also open the back door for the flow of stolen property and economic monies out of the U.S. and of course the flow of people back and forth without due process. This is not just limited to the influx of illegal aliens looking for a better life, but also the outflow wanted criminals and a back door entrance for terrorists and others intent on doing harm to this country or it's people. All of these effects of poor border control result in governmental involvement. In essence our government is being controlled, to some degree, by external influences. Illegal aliens affect our welfare system, drugs and terrorism affect our law enforcement system and stolen property/money leaving the country affect our economy. All of which affect the policies our leaders adopt, enact or enforce as well as affecting where we allocate funding which could be better utilized in other areas. Until our borders are secure and immigration is tightly controlled our government will not be free of external control and our lives will be directly affected by the philosophies, ideals and whims those who have no regard for our best interests.

Borders serve many purposes, from identifying the boundaries of a nation to providing a barrier to outside influences. They protect those who share a common history and culture from those who do not share that common culture and hold no regard for it other than eliminating it in order to reestablish THEIR culture in a new area rich in resources. America has always been known as a "Melting Pot", a nation of immigrants who came to this country and blended their culture with the cultures of others to create the "American Culture". The tidal wave of illegal immigration, lax legal immigration policies and the rise of multiculturalism have transformed this once great melting pot into something more resembling a salad bowl. The new American Salad Bowl is a variety of hyphenated Americans all tossed in together and each fighting to have their own culture recognized over and above the others.

Now don't get me wrong, I am not (I repeat NOT) an isolationist. I know this country was built upon and thrives upon immigration. For the first time in history a country (America) has been invaded without being at war!

Immigration unchecked is Invasion!

You may have noticed the new banners on my article. They are new to my article, but they are not new to me. I have chosen to do this series of articles because they relate directly to the mission of the Paul Revere Society and they address issues that are of great concern right now and will directly affect our future as a nation. Over the Christmas holidays I read a newspaper article that tried to elicit sympathy for 'undocumented immigrants' (ILLEGAL ALIENS) who would not be able to go back home to Mexico for Christmas because they were afraid they wouldn't be able to get back into the country after the increased security following Sept. 11th.

Is it just me or is there something fundamentally WRONG about that?

Paul Revere Society Mission Statement

Michael Savage founded The Paul Revere Society (PRS). With a crisis of leadership threatening the United States, PRS stands for the reassertion of our borders, our language, and our culture.

Some say that the borders are arbitrary, English is only one of many languages in our new "Multicultural America," and that we share no common history or values. We believe in the Sovereignty of our Nation. That English is our national "glue." And that we all do share in the pillars of the Bible, the U.S. Constitution, and the Bill of Rights. These documents and what they stand for are our common cultural heritage.

The Paul Revere Society (PRS) will assert the values inherent in these pillars of freedom. We will seek to educate the citizenry about our nation's freedoms.

That's My Two Cents, Deal With It!


So, what have you got to say?

Let me know and I'll tell you if it's worth 2 cents!

Dear2c@hotmail.com

*note: all names and handles will be changed or removed to protect the pathetic*

Like to Read??
A chatter, Incog™, sent me a link to post in the Ezine. They ask that anyone with some spare time who enjoys reading please read their story and give them some input. I have read their story and like it very much! The story is not finished, but they'd like some opinions and ideas on what they've done so far. So, if you like to read and can spare some time to help a fellow chatter out, please go to the link and read the story, the site also has a link so that you can email your input to them. They have given my their word that the email addresses will not be kept nor used for any other purpose and since I know the chatter very well, I also give you my word that it is safe to do so. Enjoy your reading!

http://www.angelfire.com/d20/astory/index.html

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Q n A
Well, by now we all know how the "game" is played. Please send any questions you have or that you'd like to see posted in the Ezine for others to answer to ch_zine@hotmail.com as well as your answers to the questions. You should include the handle you'd like the answer posted under or if you'd like to remain anonymous, do not include your handle. If you'd like, you can also include the room you usually chat in.

The NEW Question:
If you had the opportunity to go anywhere in the world, the trip completely paid for, where would you go and why?

The Question:
If you knew of a neighbor, schoolmate, a child's friend, a friends child, a relative, etc... that was being physically, emotionally or mentally abused how would you handle the situation?

The Answers:

"I have been in this situation before. I dont want to be in it again. I tried everything, confrontation, compassion and even called upon the help of the authorities. Some people know how to play the "system" and in the end the concerned onlooker becomes the one publicly stoned... but alas I forged on ahead. In the end, the lives of my own children were publicly threatened and thats when you sometimes need to step back and re-group. The abused children are apparently doing ok now as a result of increased scrutiny upon their mother but I can no longer be so focussed on their situation...instead I hold my own children close and know their little hearts will never carry the burden of abuse. I tried to save the world... but failed. Mind you, my shouting and attention seeking generated enough interest for other people to intensify their gaze. My intervention hasn't solved the problem... but the scrutiny it has generated will to some degree spare those little children and let "safe" be a word not merely found in the dictionary." (no handle given)

I think for me it would depend on the extent and type of the abuse how I would handle it along with other factors, the most important being how close I feel I am to the adult in the situation. If I felt that the parent was someone I could talk to openly I would begin by setting them down and having a heart to heart with them about how they are [mis]treating their children, if this did not help I would probably make an anonymous phone call to the CPS. If the parent was someone whom I did not feel I could talk to about the situation, I would skip the heart to heart and go directly for the phone. Children are a gift and should be treated as such, I do not believe in spoiling the children, but I also do not believe that any type of abuse is the answer either. -MichiganStorm™

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Horoscopes

WEEKLY HOROSCOPES

For week beginning February 18, 2002

Aries.... March 21 - April 19
Ruling Planet: 
Mars. MASCULINE, FIRE
Key Words: 
Assertive, Urgent.
Positive Traits: 
Pioneering and adventurous spirit. Enterprising, Direct, Highly energetic, Loving freedom.
Negative Traits: 
Selfish, Unsubtle, Always put themselves first, Impulsive, Impatient, Quick tempered.

There are strong indications that a confrontation is likely with a lover, this may be over you giving into a temptation or be regarding finances. Perhaps even both. Whatever the confrontation involves, you will need a lot of diplomacy and tact to overcome the difficulties, but it is likely that success will eventually be found and peace will return once again to your home life.

Taurus.... April 20 - May 20
Ruling Planet:
 
Venus. FEMININE, EARTH
Key Words:  Possessive, Permanent.
Positive Traits:  Practical, Reliable, Good business sense, Love of luxury and good foods, Persistent, Affectionate, Trustworthy.
Negative Traits:  Possessive, Lazy, Stubborn, Lacks flexibility, Obsessed with routine.

A shopping trip could result in you spending a lot of money on luxuries, which you will be happy to shower on your lover. If you are single, you are likely to meet someone new. One word of caution, make sure that you don't put too much trust in someone new until you have got to know them a little better. They may not be quite as perfect as you want to believe!

Gemini.... May 21 - June 20
Ruling Planet:  Mercury. MASCULINE, AIR
Key Words: Communicative, Adaptable, Versatile.
Positive Traits:  Adaptable, Versatile, Logical, Spontaneous, Talkative, Flair for languages, Always youthful in outlook and appearance.
Negative Traits:  Changeable, Restless, Cunning, Superficial, A gossip

You are going to find it difficult to resist the temptation to spend money on over ambitious projects that have little or no chance of success. If you can keep to smaller things, you may find some financial benefit.

Cancer.... June 21 - July 22
Ruling Planet:  Moon. FEMININE, WATER
Key Words: Protective, Sensitive.
Positive Traits: Kind, Sensitive, Sympathetic, Powerful imagination, A good parent, Protective, Cautious, Thrifty, A good home maker.
Negative Traits:  Over-emotional, Hyper-sensitive, Touchy, Moody, Sharp tempered, Self pity, Untidy, Unforgiving.

You should feel noticeably carefree at the beginning of this week. You will have a happy and outgoing aura about you, that will make everyone keen to spend plenty of time in your company. Work will take a backseat as you are encouraged by friends and partners to dedicate life to partying!

Leo.... July 23 - August 22
Ruling Planet: Sun. MASCULINE, FIRE
Key Words: Creative, Impressive, Powerful.
Positive Traits: Magnanimous, Generous, Creative, Enthusiastic, A good organizer, Broad minded, A sense of drama.
Negative Traits: Dogmatic, Bully, Pompous, Snobbish, Intolerant, Patronizing, Power mad, Conceited.

If you have recently been experiencing problems within a relationship, this week should see the final resolution of these. You will find that you are better able than usual to express your feelings and emotions, you will therefore be more able to discuss your problems and find the right solution.

Virgo.... August 23 - September 22
Ruling Planet: Mercury. FEMININE, EARTH
Key Words: Critical, Analytical.
Positive Traits: Discriminating, Analytical, Careful/Exact, Modest, Tidy.
Negative Traits: Fussy, A warrior, Hypercritical, Conventional

You will now be determined not to waste a single minute of your life, and will be keen to ensure that you gain the maximum benefit from every opportunity that exists. Being especially unselfish, you could be particularly keen on things that will benefit the largest numbers of other people possible.

 Libra.... September 23 - October 22
Ruling Planet: Venus. MASCULINE, AIR 
Key Words: Harmonious, Together. 
Positive Traits: Charming, Easy going, Romantic, Diplomatic, Idealistic, Refined. 
Negative Traits: Indecisive, Resentful, Changeable, Gullible, Frivolous. 

Your life may have been turned upside down over the past few days by the actions of your friends, however, you will now be keen to regain control over your own thoughts and actions. You have possibly had little time for concentrated work and there are things mounting up that require your immediate attention. Time should go very quickly, as you loose yourself in your work.

Scorpio.... October 23 - November 21
Ruling Planet: Pluto, (Traditionally Mars) FEMININE, WATER
Key Words: Intense, Passionate.
Positive Traits: Strong feelings and emotions, A sense of purpose, Very imaginative, Discerning, Subtle, Persistent, Determined.
Negative Traits: Jealous, Resentful, Stubborn, Obstinate, Secretive, Suspicious.

If you can remember the dreams you had when you wake up on Tuesday morning, you could find an important message that will benefit you financially. You will however, need to find out exactly what the message will concern. It is most likely to involve a name, you simply need to make the connection, you will not need to put great effort into this.

 Sagittarius.... November 22 - December 21
Ruling Planet: Jupiter. MASCULINE, FIRE
Key Words: Exploring, Free.
Positive Traits: Jovial, Optimistic, Versatile, Open minded, Dependable, Sincere, Good judgment.
Negative Traits: Exaggerates, tactless, careless, irresponsible, Extremist.

Children that come with visitors could be the cause for some stress as breakages are likely. Lock away any valuable family heirlooms that you don't want destroyed. A much prized possession could suffer irreparable damage at the hands of boisterous and clumsy small hands!

 Capricorn.... December 22 - January 19
Ruling Planet: Saturn. FEMININE, EARTH
Key Words: Prudent, Calculated.
Positive Traits: Reliable, Determined, Ambitious, Careful, Prudent, Good sense of humor, Patient.
Negative Traits: Pessimistic, Miserly, Conventional, Rigid outlook.

Take care that you do not commit yourself to expenses that you can not really afford. You may also be constantly questioning other people. Unprepared to simply accept things on face value, you will need to find out all the why's and where's before you do anything. Several people could become a little short tempered with you as you will appear to be being deliberately awkward with your constant questioning.

 Aquarius.... January 20 - February 18
Ruling Planet: Uranus (Traditionally Saturn) MASCULINE, AIR.
Key Words: Independent, Humane.
Positive Traits: Humanitarian, Independent, Friendly, Willing, Original, Inventive, Faithful, Loyal, Idealistic, Intellectual.
Negative Traits: Unpredictable, Eccentric, Rebellious, Tactless, Perverse, Tries too hard to be unconventional.

Take care that you allow some time to relax, you are likely to suffer from frayed nerves as the week goes on, you could find that you are starting to feel a little panicked by the demands that are being placed on you. Don't forget to compromise if it is required. You may be best advised to pass on some of your work load, you will do better to tackle a little less, well. Rather than to tackle a lot, poorly.

Pisces.... February 19 - March 20
Ruling Planet: Neptune. FEMININE, WATER.
Key Words:  Impressionable.
Positive Traits:  Humble, Compassionate, Sympathetic, Sensitive, Adaptable, Kind, Intuitive, Receptive.
Negative Traits: Vague, Careless, Secretive, Easily confused, weak willed, Indecisive.

Subconsciously, you may be trying to test your partner and to find out what they will put up with. You will believe, that they have only been saying and doing what they think you want, and that really they don't love you so much. Luckily, you will have some self control, so you shouldn't create enormous problems and you will soon start to treat them in the way they deserve.

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