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Happy Valentines Day!
~ February 11th, 2002 ~ Issue #79 ~

Thoughts of a Chatter | Valentine Messages | Chat Gathering | Q n A | Send an E-Card | Horoscopes
Thoughts of a Chatter

First of all, I'd like to apologize and publicly state that I feel like quite an ass right now! And I'd like to apologize to them, and the person who wrote this email to me I hope knows who they are (there was not a handle sent with the email, so none has been posted) and that I am truly sorry. I've had this email in my mail box since October 4th and somehow it got sent to the wrong folder and overlooked until I began cleaning out my email folders. It was meant to be posted in the very next Ezine after I received it, however due to my own mistakes, it was not. Once again, my apologies. The email read as follows:

    October 4th, 2001

    I didn't know who to send this through, and or where to send it too, but I wanted to say a little something about Americans. I am proud to be an american and I stand up more now to the flag than I ever have before... So why is it that nearly three weeks later, people have stopped showing the red, white, and blue? Nearly every car had flags waving in the wind, and now it is becoming scarce. Three homes down the street from me, who were the first to put up the flags, have now taken them down. I have this strange feeling, that America is starting to move forward a little to fast and that we are forgetting too soon what happened. Yes we need to move on and try to go on with our daily lives, but don't let this tragedy slip away into the night, and pretend it never happened. Nearly 6 years later, the Oklahoma City bombing is forgotten.. I only hope that people keep remembering for a long time what happend on 9-11.

    mourning and saddened american...

And again, I need to apologize to me(f)™. An email sat in my inbox of all places, right where anyone with eyes would see it, except me of course. A reply to a Q n A question that was mistakenly left out. My apologies me(f).

    If you could eliminate just one of the evils in the world what would it be and why? Hatred. me(f)™

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Valentine "Posties"

*disclosure*
The following Valentines Day wishes were copied and pasted directly from emails, they are the exact words that were written.

To: Glimmer Man
From: ~ClassyLady~

I LOVE YOU!!!


To: Bonobo
From: bk aka milkmaid
    Bonobo...or Master as you are now to me....i love you more than life it's self anymore. You fought hard to win my love and now you have it always....i will be forever yours..no matter what....as i tell you always, you are sooooo stuck with me!!!!!!! i love you more with each passing days...and even through the rough times you will always have my love and i will always be yours.

To: John
From: RavenOne
    My Valentine is my MOMD (man of my dreams). I had no idea that I'd ever find him, but I always had hope...~S~ I've found him, I've got him, and I'm Never gonna let him go..........He doesn't chat, but I couldn't resist professing my love and adoration for him, and sharing with everyone in chat!


To: My Sisters & My Friends
From: MichiganStorm™
    I hope each of you have the most wonderfully sweet Valentines ever. Keep in mind on this day for love that a gift from the heart, whether it be just kind words & thoughts or something as small as a card, they are worth more than anything money can buy.... Besides, I can't afford to send gifts *L*. Seriously- Happy V-Day!!! *gives out packets of sugar adorned in hearts and flowers*

To:Chat Family & Friends and Chris
From: Josie™
Hello all...........I have a few things that I would like to share in light of this holiday. *S* First of all to my wonderful husband.........Chris......my love.....my darling.......what can I say to you that you don't already know? I love you with all there is in me, you bring out the better parts of me. Even when I am down or just in one of "my moods", you do everything you can to make me smile and show just how much you love me. What or where would I be without you? Baby, I love you with all my heart and soul and want you to know just important you are to me. You are and forever will be "My Valentine"! *huge tight massive huggers n passionate kisses*

Now............to all my chat family and friends........I have no idea where to begin to tell just how much you all mean to me, also there are just waaaaaaaaaaaaay too many of you to list individually. Let me just say that is the almost six years that I have been chatting, you have been there for me through life and death, my ups and downs, my great moods and my most worst ones as well, my illnesses and surgery's as well as the happy times in my life. You have been there to congratulate me and support me when I was losing what little mind I have planning my wedding and you were there to support me on the near death of my son and his very blessed recovery from his illness.

There were times where without some of you, I probably woulda done something drastic, stupid or just plain insane. You guys/gals mean more to me than I can ever express in this lil message. I just want you all to know that I love each of you dearly and that I hope you have the best Valentines Day ever and get that "special" Valentine that you are hoping for.

*huge tight huggers n kisses where they go*

To: Foxy
From: Lushy (aka as simply devine or laura)
Wishing you the best Valentines Day Ever. Knowing I have you as a friend is one of the greatest honours I have ever endured. Lots of lushy hugs and kisses for you my friend on Valentines.

From: Wrangler Watcher aka Sunset Dreams!

    Would like to wish all my friends in the Wild West Wing a Happy Valentine. Happy Valentines y'all love ya!


To: vessago
From: QUEEN VAMPIRESS
    Vessy,
    Will you be my valentine?....Or do I have to break out the handcuffs & whip? ;-)
    *Hugs, Love & Red Wine....*
    Always,
    Queenie

To: Sadgirl aka Laura
From: Jim aka Talljim

    Hey chica, tu bonita. Happy Valentines day, and I hope that you are able to get out somewhere and have a sweetheart lunch with your daughter. *S*


To: wingz aka "Savannah" aka Fiona
From: ~FRODO~
    It hasn't been an easy year but it is that sickly sweet time of year again, so I will get into the mood and chuck lots of kisses and hurl lots of hugs at you. I love you babe.....even though you constantly nag at me, lol.


To: My Midnight Cowboy
From: Testerosa ~*~aka Shameless~*~
    Hmmmmm 5 years ago we met in the "Wild West Wing" of the Chathouse, and 3 years ago we married on Valentine's Day. Who would have thought it could happen that way? But it did and I am ever greatful and so very happy.

    I love you babes. Here's to 3 successful and sometimes stressful years of marriage -- and to a lifetime of more experiences.

    ~always yours~


To: Michael (SexyCanadian)
From: Jen (Ju£iet JeÑÑie)
    You are the sweetest gentleman I have met online. Be my Valentine. *hugs and kisses sweetly* Luv you, Jen

To:Rich
From: ALI(F)
We met in the hall in the month of January.I never expected that love would find me i always ran into the wrong guys. But you were so different so loving, so kind, and honest. From the very first time we met you always were honest with me telling me exactly how you felt about me and thats what drew me to you.I remember the first time you told me that you loved me I was over come with so much happiness but scared at the same time. I didn't know whether to believe you or not.

But the more time we spent with each other chatting and talking on the phone i just knew that i felt the same way. As the days went by my love for you continued to grow. You loved me for who I was and you taught me so much about myself and the world around me. You taught me that not all guys are jerks and that nice guys really do exist. I love the way your so caring and loving towards me. When i need someone to talk to your always there for me.

We met in person Feb 3, 2002 and it was everything that I expected it to be and so much more.So today on Valentine's Day I declare my love for you Rich love you always and forever.

Your,Ali*hugs and kisses*

To: shaado
From: Tazzy
    Happy Valentines Day sweetheart! Three years ago you came into my life...You have touched my heart in ways no one ever has, and no one ever could. You have allowed me to share a part of your life that has become so important to me, for that I will always be grateful! I Love You Bob!

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Chat Gathering
Josie™

I am considering hosting another net gathering here in Wilmington, NC sometime early October. If you are interested, please email me @ spring_fling@hotmail.com I will only proceed with planning if enough people are interested in attending. Josie

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Q & A
MichiganStorm™ & ChatDominatrix

The Game: The game Honesty is based on Truth or Dare, but without the dare. When actually playing the game one player asks a question and all have to answer honestly, including the player who asked the pending question. For the new Ezine version of the game we will ask a new question each week and all ChatHouse® chatters are welcome [and invited] to send in a response. The following week not only will a new question be asked, but the answers to [any] previous questions that we receive will also be posted.

Please send all answers to ch_zine@hotmail.com and be sure to include the handle under which your input should be posted [if a handle is not submitted, there will be no handle posted with the response]. If you have any questions you'd like asked in our Q & A section, please send them to the same address! Thank you.

This week we're repeating last weeks question and we're awaiting your response! *S*

New Question:
If you knew of a neighbor, schoolmate, a child's friend, a friends child, a relative, etc... that was being physically, emotionally or mentally abused how would you handle the situation?

Please send all answers and any questions you'd like to see asked to ch_zine@hotmail.com and be sure to include the handle under which your input should be posted and room/floor you chat in.

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E-Card Links & Things

The following links are just some of the pages I've found online during my "surfing" where you might be able to find a last minute card or gift idea for the big V day! (All pages should open in new window)

Ecards from www.Egreetings.com

Recycle Valentines with ideas from http://www.geocities.com/RainForest/5002/valentin.html

Great Valentine Craft ideas at www.makingfriends.com/valentine.htm

ECards from www.123greetings.com/valentine/

www.valentine.com

http://free.bluemountain.com/eng/valentine/

http://www.holidays.net/amore/val.html

This is the most wonderful site full of things to do with your kids or let them do FOR you! Print out valentines, play games, grab some downloads, etc... It's a wonderful site! http://www.billybear4kids.com/holidays/valentin/fun.htm

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Horoscopes

WEEKLY HOROSCOPES

For week beginning February 11, 2002

Aries.... March 21 - April 19
Ruling Planet: 
Mars. MASCULINE, FIRE
Key Words: 
Assertive, Urgent.
Positive Traits: 
Pioneering and adventurous spirit. Enterprising, Direct, Highly energetic, Loving freedom.
Negative Traits: 
Selfish, Unsubtle, Always put themselves first, Impulsive, Impatient, Quick tempered.

Clarity and sanity return this week, boosting your confidence and determination to raise the bar and reach a little higher for an even shinier brass ring. Why cut corners or settle for less when the best is within arm's reach? You begin the week in an idealistic, possibly romantic frame of mind and won't have much interest in anyone or anything that can't keep up with your imagination and energy level. The last thing you want to deal with now is a dream killer -- especially since you're hot on the trail of something significant. Don't be at all surprised if others are wowed by your understanding and articulate presentation.
Lucky Numbers: 19-28-14-38-24-35

Taurus.... April 20 - May 20
Ruling Planet:
 
Venus. FEMININE, EARTH
Key Words:  Possessive, Permanent.
Positive Traits:  Practical, Reliable, Good business sense, Love of luxury and good foods, Persistent, Affectionate, Trustworthy.
Negative Traits:  Possessive, Lazy, Stubborn, Lacks flexibility, Obsessed with routine.

Keep an open mind about a job possibility. Instead of rejecting an idea, give yourself more time and space to think about it. If you're already feeling overwhelmed, you may not be receptive to the potential staring right at you. Take care of pressing matters and unavoidable obligations, then give yourself adequate time to carefully consider what may be an excellent opportunity. If you permit pressures and duties to run you ragged, leaving you too tired to recognize people and things that might possibly change your life, then it's past time to get off the merry-go-round. Very sweet opportunities with a relatively short shelf life will cross your path this week. Don't let them slip through your fingers.
Lucky Numbers: 21-16-27-1-31-42

Gemini.... May 21 - June 20
Ruling Planet:  Mercury. MASCULINE, AIR
Key Words: Communicative, Adaptable, Versatile.
Positive Traits:  Adaptable, Versatile, Logical, Spontaneous, Talkative, Flair for languages, Always youthful in outlook and appearance.
Negative Traits:  Changeable, Restless, Cunning, Superficial, A gossip

A more sophisticated, savvy YOU emerges this week, renewed and better prepared to tackle the world. You feel as if someone finally sawed off your leg and wrist shackles. Whatever dragged you down or held you back seems pathetically powerless now; the irony is that your obstacles never were that powerful. Now, your heightened perception recognizes your mightiness. Your self-image and awareness are better than they've been in ages. You're on an uphill swing toward a better life. Recognize this -- and continue attracting vital people and circumstances. FYI: Ditch anyone who makes more excuses and less of a difference.
Lucky Numbers: 23-8-12-34-24-30

Cancer.... June 21 - July 22
Ruling Planet:  Moon. FEMININE, WATER
Key Words: Protective, Sensitive.
Positive Traits: Kind, Sensitive, Sympathetic, Powerful imagination, A good parent, Protective, Cautious, Thrifty, A good home maker.
Negative Traits:  Over-emotional, Hyper-sensitive, Touchy, Moody, Sharp tempered, Self pity, Untidy, Unforgiving.

Your position in a key relationship is much clearer this week. Instead of wondering where you fit in -- or if you fit in -- your role becomes stronger and your security, assured. A situation that might have gotten away from you can finally be reeled back in. You feel confidently in control. A partnership or financial matter intensifies and goes in your favor. Something new and quite attractive is likely to begin, giving you a new lease on life. Welcome change, because that's where opportunities are born. Clinging to the past can only offer limitation and frustration.
Lucky Numbers: 7-9-24-35-42-20

Leo.... July 23 - August 22
Ruling Planet: Sun. MASCULINE, FIRE
Key Words: Creative, Impressive, Powerful.
Positive Traits: Magnanimous, Generous, Creative, Enthusiastic, A good organizer, Broad minded, A sense of drama.
Negative Traits: Dogmatic, Bully, Pompous, Snobbish, Intolerant, Patronizing, Power mad, Conceited.

This week's New Moon jump starts your personal and business connections. Evolve past what no longer works, satisfies, or inspires -- and make room for something that reflects your passionate approach to life. Partner with someone you admire -- someone with the capacity to surprise, thrill, and fully engage your wild imagination. If your relationships have become a predictable yawn, be honest with yourself and those involved, and seriously look at carving out a new life. Don't pin this responsibility on others, Leo. This is your choice and your show.
Lucky Numbers: 21-31-2-17-11-4

Virgo.... August 23 - September 22
Ruling Planet: Mercury. FEMININE, EARTH
Key Words: Critical, Analytical.
Positive Traits: Discriminating, Analytical, Careful/Exact, Modest, Tidy.
Negative Traits: Fussy, A warrior, Hypercritical, Conventional

Continue rebuilding your confidence while you're updating your resume. What do you really want to do? Until you can staunchly answer that question, your future hangs in the balance. So much is available -- if you're willing to move forward. If you continue straddling two worlds, you'll remain stuck -- probably at someone else's mercy. Be strong enough to release what was probably a pipe dream and refocus your energy on personal and professional circumstances that are worthy of your excellence.
Lucky Numbers: 36-26-8-21-4-28

 Libra.... September 23 - October 22
Ruling Planet: Venus. MASCULINE, AIR 
Key Words: Harmonious, Together. 
Positive Traits: Charming, Easy going, Romantic, Diplomatic, Idealistic, Refined. 
Negative Traits: Indecisive, Resentful, Changeable, Gullible, Frivolous. 

The tables turn in your favor, particularly in romantic and friendship zones. Don't be a stranger to pals who miss you -- pack your overnight bag and spend time with family and friends going through Libran withdrawal. Children may play an increasingly important role in your life. Expect announcements, phone calls, and surprising news this week. One door closes, but another one opens revealing warmth and acceptance. Some of you may finally let go of a shop worn, tired out relationship that hasn't been right for ages. FYI: As soon as you let go of the past, a future buzzing with vitality can break through.
Lucky Numbers: 36-24-20-1-5-14

Scorpio.... October 23 - November 21
Ruling Planet: Pluto, (Traditionally Mars) FEMININE, WATER
Key Words: Intense, Passionate.
Positive Traits: Strong feelings and emotions, A sense of purpose, Very imaginative, Discerning, Subtle, Persistent, Determined.
Negative Traits: Jealous, Resentful, Stubborn, Obstinate, Secretive, Suspicious.

You feel much better this week, partially because others seem to grasp what you're saying and also because pending issues can finally be pushed forward. Still, you require more personal time to collect your thoughts and plan things without others' constant drama and interruption. You may fantasize about hibernating from the usual hustle this week -- maybe take a few days off or ignore your cell phone or pager. Just soaking in a fragrant, warm bath sounds exquisitely delicious, doesn't it? Allow yourself a little more space, peace, and privacy.
Lucky Numbers: 22-19-15-31-8-25

 Sagittarius.... November 22 - December 21
Ruling Planet: Jupiter. MASCULINE, FIRE
Key Words: Exploring, Free.
Positive Traits: Jovial, Optimistic, Versatile, Open minded, Dependable, Sincere, Good judgment.
Negative Traits: Exaggerates, tactless, careless, irresponsible, Extremist.

The pace of your daily life picks up this week, making time management more important than ever. Time is money -- not to mention sanity -- so do your best to work within time limitations and honor others' schedules. You probably won't have many opportunities to window shop and daydream, particularly during the weekdays. Visitors, friends, and professional associates may pile up on your doorstep, unless you carefully manage your schedule. Your mind is a marvel this week, excellent in problem solving, inventing, and brainstorming. A few provocative comments may finally set the wheels of progress in motion.
Lucky Numbers: 18-3-15-38-10-11

 Capricorn.... December 22 - January 19
Ruling Planet: Saturn. FEMININE, EARTH
Key Words: Prudent, Calculated.
Positive Traits: Reliable, Determined, Ambitious, Careful, Prudent, Good sense of humor, Patient.
Negative Traits: Pessimistic, Miserly, Conventional, Rigid outlook.

Your position is better understood this week. This is such a relief because you won't have to exert tons of energy explaining yourself. Important financial decisions are likely to be made. You may consider selling something that no longer interests you or has become more trouble than it's worth. You may also look into investing in something eccentric but fascinating. If anyone tries to order you about or control you in any way, your amazing contrary side is likely to erupt with a vengeance. Your judgment is sound and your plans have real merit. Follow your own muse, no matter what anyone else thinks.
Lucky Numbers: 41-22-26-7-1-11

 Aquarius.... January 20 - February 18
Ruling Planet: Uranus (Traditionally Saturn) MASCULINE, AIR.
Key Words: Independent, Humane.
Positive Traits: Humanitarian, Independent, Friendly, Willing, Original, Inventive, Faithful, Loyal, Idealistic, Intellectual.
Negative Traits: Unpredictable, Eccentric, Rebellious, Tactless, Perverse, Tries too hard to be unconventional.

Every time you turn around, you're faced with another unexpected development. If anyone can handle this sort of uneasiness, it's you. Your world is being constantly rattled and reshuffled, almost to the point that you feel dizzy. You've known for some time that change is inevitable, and now you're surrounded by reminders that change is already here -- whether you're ready for it or not. The key is to not resist or fear waves of transformation. You need the built-in vitality and spark that new people and fresh opportunities can offer.
Lucky Numbers: 39-6-14-26-25-3

Pisces.... February 19 - March 20
Ruling Planet: Neptune. FEMININE, WATER.
Key Words:  Impressionable.
Positive Traits:  Humble, Compassionate, Sympathetic, Sensitive, Adaptable, Kind, Intuitive, Receptive.
Negative Traits: Vague, Careless, Secretive, Easily confused, weak willed, Indecisive.

A friendship is finally better understood. You're able to make sense out of a relationship that once tried your patience and elevated your anxiety, but now quietly takes its place in your book of memories. Are you happy with your current living situation -- completely happy? Give some thought to making a few improvements -- or maybe even packing up and relocating. A friend or colleague may bring promising news that motivates you to consider other locales, probably due to a career opportunity.
Lucky Numbers: 33-19-2-20-41-38

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